Choices and responsibility

Hello there,
I hope you are doing well, I just realized it was a long time since I communicated with you. A friend was here visiting her parents last week and it was a pleasure meeting up with her, its interesting to see how values and ”self” creates a persons character that probabbly gives the root foundation to a persons choices in life.

I’m currently reading https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18872437-the-millionaire-fastlaneBy MJ DeMarco, it is deeper and more fundamental in its message if one reads on.
Its very easy to underestimate habits and our choices, they in effect are what determines our life.
The other day a a friend wrote in a chat ”Success is a Choice” and he is right!
?? as Anthony Robbins says.
“We can choose what to focus on, we can choose what things mean and we can choose what to do. Those three choices; those three decisions, really control our life”

“Decisions equal destiny”
But most people think that this is a very challenging proposition, especially non succesfull people. The twist of it all and probably the most fundamental is that we need to accept full responsibility, that we are through or choices the source of our life.

That is so powerfull and actually very natural, action=results.
“If anybody have something you want, they aren’t lucky; they did something. If you model them, if you take similar steps, you can produce similar results”– Tony Robbins

“The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off”– Tony Robbins
And the last qoute is the one that makes a lot of people not accept it. What I see in tye visiting friend and her sister is that this is something that is second nature to them. And to their father who is the one I actually know best this is clear as life itself. I would say that ones biggest challenge is to stay away from the victim people, they who blame others instead of accepting that they are responsible.
Every action = a result, treat it as neutral and figure out next action to take.

I think we all are guilty of playing the victim thing at times, the difference lies in the fact if we catch ourself in the thought or not. If one embraces it, all of a sudden all of the power are within use. Wow that is amazing, if we have the power to create any life we want, what would you do?
How are you? What are you busy with? What choice are you making?